How to Be Vulnerable in a Relationship when You're an Empowered Woman
Let's talk about relationships for a sec. We as empowered and divine feminine women CAN do it all. But, when it comes to relationships with men, attraction and polarity and letting a man step in & help when you’re tired, frustrated, busy, or just a little in over your head is a necessity for the passion and relationship to thrive!
All this means is you get to be supported and helped, something we could all use more of.
It's time to let go of the false idea that women don't need anyone or anything.
We're more than capable of getting what we want on our own—but that doesn't mean we don't need a little help figuring out how to do it. So if you're not sure how to move forward with your business or relationship goals? Don't let fear hold you back. Reach out for advice from someone who has been there before, someone who can guide you in making the right decisions for yourself. All this means is you get to be supported and helped, something we could all use more of.
We as women will often proclaim...
“My neighbor is complaining about that big tree- I’m going to go cut it down myself. I just bought myself an ax!”
“Oh hell no, I’ve got this- don’t worry about it!”
Or, “How much do I owe you? I couldn’t possibly let you pay for that! Here’s some money...” forces it into his hand, or chases him to put it in his pocket / car / etc
“You’ve got sooo much going on, I’m determined to figure it out by myself. You don’t need to help me!”
What to do instead, to allow his heart to open...
“I feel so unsure what to do about my neighbor. He is complaining about my big, wonderful tree. He wants me to cut it down. It would break my heart to do that & may be forced to. I feel so sad right now.”
Or if you are in your business crown:
“I am about to launch my beautiful website. I have been so excited, but I’ve been feeling a little scared to put myself out there like that. Have you ever been afraid to put yourself out there in work or in life?”
You can make your man feel like the hero of your story by paying attention to the ways that we tend to create further insecurities and instead, letting him feel drawn to help you. If you’re nice to him, he’ll see that you’re a woman who needs help and he will want to be your rock and support. After all, stress can bring out the best of life!!
You're strong, you know it. You've got your own thing going on, and you know who you are. And yet… there are some days when you just feel like sharing a little bit more of yourself with the world and your man. You're not weak for being vulnerable—you're actually strong enough in who you are to share yourself. Being vulnerable doesn't mean that you're weak; it means that you have the strength and smarts to ask for help when necessary, and that's sexy!
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